When do you give them the keys?
Mark Doorley,   Villanova University
ne of the most daunting decisions that parents have to make
concerns the car keys and their child. When can I trust my child?
How do I know if I can trust my child? They still aren't responsible
about getting their homework done on time! We parents or step-parents,
as the case may be, tend to focus on the budding young adult rather
An element of the answer to the title question of this short essay is
what is going on with me, the parent. Is my fear getting in the way?
Are my benchmarks of trustworthiness too stringent, or too ambiguous?
Rather than focus on the child who wants to drive the car, focus on
the parent who holds the keys. Sometimes this is the key to
the best choice.